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Monday 3 August 2015

How to handle those irritations in your life

You are on your happy level, and the phone ring and you want to go -aaarrrggggg.

Now to remain on the happy level, whe have a veiw seconds to do so, you can think, how fortunate I am to be so popular, to own a phone, to have a job etc. and answer with a smile and still be happy.

And then that person, you just cannot handle, with that stupid remarks who forever irritate the daylights out of you, walk into your office -arrgggggg.
Remeber you need to stay on that happy level . . . .

Now, in a few seconds, you can go down to that level or you can stay on yours . . . the choice is yours.

Remember, it's not your job to go down to that level, nor is it to drag that person up to your level, but you can say, I want to uplift you, if you are upliftable . . . come up and we can play together, but I am not going down where you are and try to drag you up. 
I AM NOT GOING DOWN TO WHERE YOU ARE!! 

Remeber what it look like when you are stuck in traffic and drivers are yelling at- and signal each other, how can you stay in your happy place in traffic? Smile and think of a way to stay on your happy level, it's all up to you.

Then you get the complainers or criticizers and analitical bunch and the nosy ones . . . trying so hard to pull everybody to their lower level - repeat : I AM NOT GOING DOWN WHERE YOU ARE! Stay in your happy place and carry on. What a challange! 

Now do you get that? Think of a way to stay on your happy level, in all situations, at all costs, just do not get down from your happy level. 

To hate or to get angry and is more harmfull to ourselves than to the one we hate or are angry with. 

And if you are reading here and you analize or critisize, dude I AM NOT GOING DOWN WHERE YOU ARE, I AM NOT PERFECT, BUT IF YOU ARE UPLIFTABLE, COME UP AND PLAY, BUT I AM NOT GOING DOWN WHERE YOU ARE, TO TRY AND DRAG YOU UP, I AM NOT. 

MWAH

Yeah that feel soooo good . . .